Coming Home Carer Skills
Module 4: Respect, fairness and rights
Topics follow the 16 Care Certificate standards (2025). This module maps to standard 4, "Equality, diversity, inclusion and human rights".
Coming Home Carer Skills is our own free course for family carers. Its topics follow the 16 Care Certificate standards (2025) from Skills for Care, NHS England and Skills for Health. It is not the Care Certificate, it is not a qualification, and those organisations have not endorsed it.
This guide to Respect, fairness and rights is correct at October 2026. We've written it in good faith as general information to help family carers. It isn't legal, financial or medical advice, and it can't teach practical skills such as moving someone or first aid. For those, ask the person's nurse or therapist, or find an in-person course. To the extent the law allows, we can't accept liability for any errors or omissions, or for decisions made on the strength of this guide. In a medical emergency call 999. If you need advice quickly, call NHS 111. In Northern Ireland, contact your GP out of hours service.
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[00:00] Module 4: Respect, fairness and rights
On screen: Coming Home Carer Skills; About 6 minutes. Picture: Gurpreet and Balbir sit together at her dining table with two cups of chai, laughing at a shared joke. Balbir's wheeled walking frame stands beside her chair.
Welcome to Module 4 of Coming Home Carer Skills: Respect, fairness and rights. On screen are Gurpreet and his mum, Balbir. Balbir is 82. She is Sikh, she speaks Punjabi, and her faith shapes her day. We will look at respect, fairness, your rights in plain words, and asking for what the person needs.
[00:25] Before we start
On screen: Our own free course for family carers.; Topics follow the 16 Care Certificate standards (2025).; Not the Care Certificate. Not a qualification.; Not endorsed by Skills for Care, NHS England or Skills for Health..
First, a short note. Coming Home Carer Skills is our own free course for family carers. Its topics follow the 16 Care Certificate standards (2025) from Skills for Care, NHS England and Skills for Health. It is not the Care Certificate, it is not a qualification, and those organisations have not endorsed it.
[00:50] In this module
On screen: Respecting faith, culture and language; When a service is unfair; Rights in plain words; Asking for an interpreter or for changes.
By the end, you should know how to respect what matters, what to do if a service is unfair, your basic rights, and how to ask for help.
[01:00] Everyone is different
On screen: Faith, culture, food and language matter.; Ask the person what matters to them.; Do not guess.. Picture: Early morning. Balbir sits peacefully in her armchair by the window, eyes closed, hands resting in her lap. Gurpreet quietly brings in a tray with two cups of chai, careful not to disturb her.
Everyone is different. Faith, culture, food, language and the way someone likes to live all matter, especially when they need care. Balbir says her prayers every morning. She is vegetarian, and she keeps her hair covered. She would like a woman to help her wash. To find out what matters, ask the person, and listen. Do not guess. People from one community can want very different things.
[01:30] When a service gets it wrong
On screen: A man was sent to help Balbir wash.; Visits came in the middle of her prayers.; Letters came in small print, in English only.. Picture: At the open front door, Gurpreet talks calmly and politely with a young male care worker (unnamed extra, plain tunic, no logo or badge) who looks unsure. Balbir stands in the hallway behind with her wheeled walking frame, looking uneasy. Nobody is angry.
When Balbir started home care, things went wrong. A man was sent to help her wash, even though the family had asked for a woman. The visits came in the middle of her morning prayers. And the letters came in small print, in English only. At the GP surgery, someone said Gurpreet could interpret at her hospital appointment. Gurpreet felt that none of this was right.
[01:56] Being fair
On screen: Unfair: refusing someone, or giving a worse service, because of who they are.; Unfair: not making reasonable changes for a disabled person.; It is not always done on purpose.. Picture: At a café door with one step, a smiling café worker (unnamed extra, older woman) lays down a portable ramp. Anjali, in her wheelchair, laughs with Ravi beside her.
Being fair does not mean doing the same for everyone. It means everyone gets a fair chance. A service is unfair if it refuses someone, or gives them a worse service, because of who they are, such as their age, race, religion or disability. It can also be unfair not to make reasonable changes for a disabled person. The law calls these reasonable adjustments. When Ravi and Anjali went out for lunch, there was a step at the door. Ravi asked, and the staff brought out a ramp.
[02:32] Rights in plain words
On screen: England, Scotland and Wales: the Equality Act 2010; Northern Ireland: its own, separate equality laws; Both make discrimination against the law.. Picture: Four panels, one household in each nation, each reading a plain leaflet together: (1) Gurpreet and Balbir (England); (2) Rhys and Carys (Wales); (3) Morag and Alasdair (Scotland); (4) Ciara and Declan (Northern Ireland). All calm.
Now, rights in plain words. Discrimination means someone is put at a disadvantage because of who they are. In England, Scotland and Wales, the main law against discrimination is the Equality Act 2010. It covers things like age, disability, race, religion or belief, sex and sexual orientation. It applies at work, in shops, and in public services such as the NHS and councils. Northern Ireland has its own laws. The Equality Commission for Northern Ireland can tell you more.
[03:10] Human rights
On screen: The Human Rights Act 1998 covers the whole UK.; Public services must respect people's rights.; For example: private and family life, and faith.. Picture: Hamza, the social worker, sits at a kitchen table facing Declan and talks to him directly; Declan answers with a big smile. Ciara sits beside Declan, listening. A pack of playing cards on the table.
The Human Rights Act 1998 covers the whole of the UK. Public services, such as the NHS and councils, must respect people's basic rights. These include respect for private and family life, the freedom to follow a faith, and the right not to be abused or degraded. On screen, Hamza, a social worker, asks Declan what he wants, not just his sister.
[03:38] Carers have rights too
On screen: England, Scotland and Wales: ask for flexible working from day one.; Up to 1 week of unpaid carer's leave a year.; Northern Ireland: different rules. Ask Carers UK.. Picture: Gurpreet talks with his manager (unnamed extra, a woman in her 40s) in a small staff kitchen at work, both holding mugs, relaxed. She nods, open and friendly.
Carers have rights too. In England, Scotland and Wales, the Equality Act protects you from discrimination at work because you care for a disabled person. You can ask for flexible working from your first day in a job, and take up to 1 week of unpaid carer's leave a year. In Northern Ireland, the rules are different. For example, you can ask for flexible working once you have been in the job for 26 weeks. Carers UK can tell you more.
[04:09] Asking for what the person needs
On screen: Ask for a professional interpreter.; Ask for letters the person can read.; Ask for changes, and get them written in the care plan.. Picture: Gurpreet, Balbir and Tomasz sit round the dining table. Tomasz writes in a plain folder while Balbir explains something with her hands and Gurpreet nods.
So Gurpreet asked for what his mum needs. He talked to Tomasz, the care agency manager. They agreed that a woman would help Balbir wash, and visits would come after her prayers. Tomasz wrote this in her care plan. He asked the GP practice to book a professional Punjabi interpreter for every appointment. NHS guidance says family members should not usually be asked to interpret. You can also ask for letters in large print, or in a language the person can read.
[04:44] Getting advice
On screen: General information, not legal advice.; England, Scotland and Wales: Equality Advisory and Support Service, 0808 800 0082; Northern Ireland: Equality Commission, 028 9050 0600; Act quickly. There are time limits..
This module is general information. It is not legal advice. For free advice in England, Scotland and Wales, call the Equality Advisory and Support Service on 0808 800 0082. In Northern Ireland, call the Equality Commission on 028 9050 0600. Act quickly, because there are time limits.
[05:12] Get help
On screen: The service's complaints process; Equality Advisory and Support Service: 0808 800 0082; Equality Commission for Northern Ireland: 028 9050 0600; Carers UK helpline: 0808 808 7777 (free); Citizens Advice, or Advice NI.
If you need help, start with the service's own complaints process. Module 3 explains how to complain. For advice about caring, including your rights at work, Carers UK runs a free helpline on 0808 808 7777. Citizens Advice, or Advice NI in Northern Ireland, can help too.
[05:36] To sum up
On screen: Ask what matters to the person.; If a service is unfair, speak up.; Know the basics of your rights.; Ask for an interpreter or for changes.; Next: read the pages, then try the quiz.. Picture: Morning, after prayers. Joy, the paid care worker, walks beside Balbir as she pushes her wheeled walking frame to the breakfast table. Gurpreet pours chai. Everyone is smiling.
To sum up. Everyone is different, so ask the person what matters to them. If a service is unfair, speak up, and get advice. Your rights, and the person's rights, are there to use. Ask for what the person needs, such as an interpreter or a change to their care. Now read the pages below, then try the quiz. You can take it as many times as you like.
Page 1: Everyone is different
Everyone has their own way of living. Faith, culture, food, language and family customs can matter even more when someone needs care.
Ask, do not guess. The best way to find out what matters is to ask the person, and listen. People from the same community, or the same faith, can want very different things.
Things to ask about.
- Faith: prayer times, fasting, festivals, and things they wear.
- Food: what they eat and do not eat, and how it is cooked.
- Language: which language they feel most at home in, especially when they are tired or unwell.
- Personal care: who they would like to help them wash and dress, for example a woman or a man.
- Routines: the times of day that matter to them.
Share what you know. With the person's agreement, tell paid carers and other services what matters. If they have a care plan, ask for it to be written there. A care plan is the written record of the help someone gets.
Respect goes both ways. Paid care workers come from many backgrounds too. They deserve the same respect.
Sources (read 8 Oct 2026): GOV.UK, "Discrimination: your rights", https://www.gov.uk/discrimination-your-rights ; Equality Act 2010, section 4 (the protected characteristics), https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/4 ; NHS website, "Care and support plans" (a plan includes what is important to you), https://www.nhs.uk/social-care-and-support/help-from-social-services-and-charities/care-and-support-plans/ ; Care Quality Commission, "Culturally appropriate care", https://www.cqc.org.uk/guidance-providers/adult-social-care/culturally-appropriate-care
Page 2: Being fair
Being fair does not mean doing the same for everyone. It means everyone gets a fair chance, even if some people need things done differently.
What unfair behaviour by a service can look like.
- Refusing to help someone, or giving them a worse service, because of who they are. For example, because of their age, race, religion or disability.
- Making fun of someone's accent, age or disability. The law calls this harassment. It means unwanted behaviour that upsets or shames someone.
- Not making reasonable changes for a disabled person. The law calls these reasonable adjustments. For example, ignoring a request for large print or a ramp, or only letting someone book by phone when they are Deaf.
These can all be against the law. Discrimination means someone is put at a disadvantage because of who they are. It is not always done on purpose.
What to do.
- Stay calm. Write down what happened, when, and who was there.
- Talk to the person in charge, or use the service's complaints process. Module 3 explains how.
- Get free advice. The Get help box says where.
Act quickly. If things are not sorted out, there are time limits for taking it further.
Notice the good, too. When a service gets it right, tell them.
Sources (read 8 Oct 2026): GOV.UK, "Discrimination: your rights", https://www.gov.uk/discrimination-your-rights ; Equality Act 2010, sections 20, 26 and 29, https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/20 , https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/26 and https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/29 ; Equality Commission for Northern Ireland, "Disability discrimination", https://equalityni.org/your-rights/disability-discrimination
Page 3: Rights in plain words
This is general information, not legal advice.
England, Scotland and Wales. The Equality Act 2010 is the main law against discrimination. It is against the law to discriminate against someone because of their:
- age
- disability
- gender reassignment
- marriage or civil partnership
- pregnancy or maternity leave
- race, including colour, nationality, and ethnic or national origin
- religion or belief
- sex
- sexual orientation
The law calls these "protected characteristics". It applies at work, in education, in shops and other services, and in public services such as the NHS and councils.
Northern Ireland. The Equality Act 2010 does not cover Northern Ireland. Northern Ireland has its own laws. The Equality Commission for Northern Ireland can tell you more. Their advice is free.
Human rights, across the UK. The Human Rights Act 1998 covers the whole UK. Public services, such as the NHS, councils and Health and Social Care Trusts, must respect people's human rights. These include respect for private and family life, home and letters; freedom of thought and religion; not being abused in a cruel or degrading way; and not being discriminated against in these rights.
Get advice early. See the Get help box.
Sources (read 8 Oct 2026): GOV.UK, "Discrimination: your rights", https://www.gov.uk/discrimination-your-rights ; Equality Act 2010, section 217 (where it applies), https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/217 ; Equality Commission for Northern Ireland, "Your rights", https://www.equalityni.org/Individuals ; Human Rights Act 1998, section 6, section 22 and Schedule 1, https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1998/42/section/6 , https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1998/42/section/22 and https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/1998/42/schedule/1
Page 4: Your rights as a carer at work
If you work and care, the law gives you some rights. They are different in Northern Ireland.
Protection from discrimination. In England, Scotland and Wales, the Equality Act 2010 also protects you if you are linked to someone with a protected characteristic, such as a disabled family member. So your employer must not discriminate against you because you care for a disabled person. In Northern Ireland, ask the Equality Commission about your situation.
Flexible working. Flexible working could mean different start and finish times, fewer hours, different days, or working from home.
- England, Scotland and Wales: all employees can ask for flexible working from their first day in a job. Your employer must deal with your request reasonably, and can only say no for set business reasons.
- Northern Ireland: you can ask once you have worked for your employer for 26 weeks, and you can make one request in any 12 months. Your employer must think about it seriously, and can only say no for good business reasons.
Carer's leave. In England, Scotland and Wales, employees can take up to 1 week of unpaid carer's leave every 12 months, from their first day in a job. It is for giving or arranging care for someone who needs care because of illness, injury, disability or old age. In Northern Ireland, the rules are different. Ask your employer what leave they offer.
Talk to your employer. Many employers have their own policy for carers. Carers UK gives free advice about your rights at work.
Sources (read 8 Oct 2026): GOV.UK, "Discrimination: your rights", https://www.gov.uk/discrimination-your-rights ; GOV.UK, "Flexible working", https://www.gov.uk/flexible-working and https://www.gov.uk/flexible-working/after-the-application ; GOV.UK, "Unpaid carer's leave", https://www.gov.uk/carers-leave ; nidirect, "Caring for someone while working", https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/caring-someone-while-working ; Department for the Economy (Northern Ireland), "Introducing Carers Leave in NI" (May 2025), https://www.economy-ni.gov.uk/sites/default/files/2025-05/UUEPC%20-%20Introducing%20Carers%20Leave%20in%20NI.PDF ; Northern Ireland Assembly Research and Information Service, "Support for Unpaid Carers in Northern Ireland" (2024), https://www.niassembly.gov.uk/globalassets/documents/raise/publications/2022-2027/2024/economy/0824.pdf
Page 5: Asking for what the person needs
You can ask services to make changes so the person can take part fully. It often helps to ask early, and to ask for it to be written down.
An interpreter. If English is hard for the person, ask the GP practice or hospital to book a professional interpreter, in person, by video or by phone. Ask when you book the appointment.
- England: NHS guidance says interpreting should be free, and family and friends should not usually be asked to interpret. Children under 16 should not interpret, except in an emergency.
- Scotland: you have the right to communication support in the NHS, including an interpreter or a sign language interpreter, if you tell staff beforehand.
- Wales: Welsh Government guidance says interpreting should be free, and you should not be asked to bring your own interpreter. Family and friends should not usually be asked to interpret.
- Northern Ireland: interpreting for health and social care appointments is free, at any time of day or night. Friends and relatives should not be used to interpret.
With an interpreter there, you can support the person, instead of having to translate.
Information they can use. In England, NHS and publicly funded adult social care services must take account of the Accessible Information Standard. This is a set of rules about giving disabled people, and people with sight or hearing loss, information they can use, such as large print, braille, easy read or a British Sign Language interpreter.
Reasonable changes. Services must make reasonable changes for disabled people. For example, a longer appointment, a quieter room, or information in an accessible format.
Get it written down. Ask for the person's needs to be written in their care plan or record, so they do not have to ask every time.
Sources (read 8 Oct 2026): NHS England, "Guidance for commissioners: Interpreting and Translation Services in Primary Care", https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/guidance-for-commissioners-interpreting-and-translation-services-in-primary-care.pdf ; GOV.UK, "Language interpreting and translation: migrant health guide", https://www.gov.uk/guidance/language-interpretation-migrant-health-guide ; Welsh Government, "Standard operating procedure: commissioning interpretation and translation services in primary and emergency healthcare", https://www.gov.wales/standard-operating-procedure-commissioning-interpretation-and-translation-services-primary-and-html ; Business Services Organisation (Northern Ireland Health and Social Care), interpreting service information page, https://bso.hscni.net/directorates/operations/regional-interpreting-service/information-for-patients/ ; NHS inform, "Communication and involving you", https://www.nhsinform.scot/care-support-and-rights/health-rights/communication-and-consent/communication-and-involving-you/ ; NHS England, "Accessible Information Standard", https://www.england.nhs.uk/about/equality/equality-hub/patient-equalities-programme/equality-frameworks-and-information-standards/accessibleinfo/ ; Equality Act 2010, section 20, https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/20 ; Equality Commission for Northern Ireland, "Disability discrimination", https://equalityni.org/your-rights/disability-discrimination
The printable guide
30 pages, A4. Questions to write in, with answers at the back.